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Changing the Past

June 7, 2025 by Angus Baynham-McColl Leave a Comment

The future always follows the past.

In the present moment the past is constantly being created by the imagination.

The reality of time is that time is a construct.

There’s no future or past in the absolute sense. All that exists is the present moment. The illusion of time is part of life in the physical plane.

The illusion still has to be worked with, for all intent and purpose time is real and needs to be treated as real.

This is true even though in the most fundamental sense time is not real.

We move through our life in a continuous line from the past to the future.

It’s you who creates the past and the future with each present moment thought that occurs.

The way manifestation works is that the future by default will repeat the past.

Your present moment is your only point of power because there’s truly nothing outside the present.

This means that if you use the power of your imagination to create your ideal past, and not just your ideal future, the momentum in your timeline will change.

Changing the past can happen when a transgression is forgiven, and lessons are learned. Upon learning a lesson, a similar painful experience will no longer be necessary.

Hopefully you only need to make a mistake once. Sometimes people have to repeat the same mistakes over and over again till change occurs.

One way to change the past could be imagining yourself relating to a past event differently than you related to it back then.

Let’s say you had a breakup and your confidence and mood is shaken, and you feel a sense of unfinished business from the past.

You have the ability in your mind to imagine an alternate past where business was finished and the relationship went how it was supposed to go. This changes your present moment because the momentum of the past has been changed.

You are creating the past by recalling it.

Therefore consciously choosing to recall the past where your preferred outcome happened is going to impact the future for the better.

Your future comes from the past, and the past comes from the present.

The future can’t be manifested when you imagine a goal in the future tense.

This is because the future never actually arrives.

When manifesting, you want to imagine the goal in the present tense.

The past and future events involved are taken care of by the universe at this point.

The entire timeline can be shifted when you hold your intention. Making peace with the past allows you to have more inner peace in the present and the future.

Your work is to either remember the past differently or find the hidden gift in the prior event.

Trauma is something that can affect the future. This is because traumas seek to create similar events.

We repeat the emotions we have learned to memorize.

By default we will live the life we have memorized.

If the life you have memorized is not the life you actually want, you need to recontextualize the memories that are holding you back.

I have traumas in my life, but I always ask myself, “how did this event work for me?”

Seeing everything in your past as something that was meant to help you is not a delusion if you can truly embody that mindset.

Delusion is the act of lying to yourself, but if you can take a lie and make it true, you aren’t a liar. You are actually a metaphysical alchemist.

When you change your present moment frequency by altering your relationship with the past, you are also gaining access to your best memories.

Emotion dictates what the thinking mind actually has access to.

Memory is tied to emotion. Since memory and emotion go hand in hand, and we repeat the emotions we have learned to memorize, changing the emotional meaning of a memory is in essence changing the past.

Once the past is changed, the present will change in subtle ways.

You will notice that as you move forward in time, your present situation (and state of being) is changing for the better.

Now you have psychological momentum.

The emotions you are memorizing are actually getting better, and now the future repeating the new past is repeating something closer to what you want.

Getting to a better emotional state is a form of shifting your timeline.

When one part changes, the whole timeline changes.

Because I have an emotional connection with my best memories, I’m also remembering my difficult memories in a joyful way.

I see the lessons and the blessings. Everything in my life has worked for me so far, therefore I anticipate the future will be no different.

Changing the past is the key to changing beliefs.

When beliefs change, emotion and action changes.

So less thinking in the future tense, and more attention to the present is the key.

When you truly gain alignment and hold onto a positive state, you’ll realize your best life is here and was meant to be all along!

To your success,

Angus

Filed Under: Motivation, Spirituality

Relative VS Absolute Financial Abundance

June 1, 2025 by Angus Baynham-McColl

I define abundance as a feeling rather than an exact dollar amount.

The amount of money you think you want vs the amount of money you actually want deep down might be two different things.

I have financial abundance even though a millionaire might be dealing with scarcity.

Abundance is relative.

You have abundance if you are able to enjoy your life with or without money. To be abundant you don’t actually need as much money as you think.

Some people think they need a million dollars before they will give themselves permission to feel abundant.

I live a lifestyle of relative minimalism. This means I have less material desire than most people, therefore I don’t actually need as much money to feel abundant. I spend less than I make and therefore have a better financial situation each time I get paid.

The reason for my past gambling addiction was that I felt abundant enough to risk money. I could lose money and still have a lot left over. It would take a while to end up broke. Even when I went broke I would have enough money around the corner.

Now that I’m no longer in active addiction as a gambler I’m able to save 40% of my take home pay.

I have 4 different accounts where I put 10% of my income into each. Money builds very quickly for me.

The spending habits I have allow me to enjoy life’s pleasures guilt free. It’s amazing how much money I have now that I’m no longer gambling. Saving 40% of my income is satisfying.

The way to feel abundant is to cut out false desires from your life. I have way more than enough because I’m perfectly happy with less. Spiritually speaking you are better off if you need less. The feeling of abundance is relative. Having $1000 is astronomically better than having $100 to your name. Once you’ve accumulated 10K in net worth, that $100 is going to feel like $10 in comparison to how it felt when you had $1000 to your name.

The peace of mind from saving and investing is one thing, but the relative worth of the dollar also changes as your net worth grows.

This is why poker players play better in games where the money doesn’t feel like it’s going to make a difference. The losses will be easier to brush off, but in turn the wins will also feel less gratifying. The ideal setup for a poker player is to play in a low enough limit for the money to just feel like units rather than dollars.

Some people who have huge amounts of absolute money feel scarcity because their desires exceed their means. Having less material desire allows you to reach freedom faster. Part of the work involves making more income. The other part of the work involves cutting out false desires and focusing on soul level desires that are true.

You might not want a huge mansion and a gold watch with a fancy car. Or maybe you want all those things and more. Having a need to make a certain money will give you more manifesting power, and if you aren’t manifesting the money you want, ask if you really need that much?

It’s far easier to get relative abundance if your seeing progress in your financial situation. Progress is actually the key to happiness. Joy is the whole point of the journey. The journey is the reward. When you stop depending on money to be joyful, you’ll have a far easier time attracting more.

To your success,

Angus

Filed Under: Motivation

Effective Leadership

May 25, 2025 by Angus Baynham-McColl

I have had a lot of life experience in leadership roles.

My first experience was in Army Cadets from 2006-2012. Also, I have been a ball hockey player and captain for many years. I started hockey in 2011 and still play to this day.

Currently I’m a peer support worker in the mental health field. Leadership is something I have been able to practice for many years.

In cadets I learned the importance of leading by example. I was the Sergeant Major of my unit in 2012, and was also a staff cadet in the summers of 2011 and 2012.

The most important thing to do as a leader is walk the walk.

As a ball hockey captain, I took pride in leading a hard working and physical team that would compete in both regular season and playoffs.

The reason I was a successful captain wasn’t because of goals or assists. It was because I could lead the charge with my intensity and work ethic. I had teammates that were better at putting points on the board. I had other teammates that would grind and play hard minutes.

My best moment as a captain was leading my 8th place Ottawa Knights to an upset over the 1st place team. I knew the opponent was expecting to win the cup.

We squeaked into the playoffs and I instilled confidence in my teammates. We won the game 9-7 because we outworked the opponent. I have always played hockey with intensity and commitment to defense.

In cadets I demonstrated dedication and was almost perfect with attendance. This showed the other cadets the importance of dedication. I strived to lead by example. I didn’t have to talk much to gain the respect of the cadets around me.

Leadership is about example above all else.

You also have to have the empathy to understand the people you are leading. Asking them what their goals are and working with their self-interest is also key. Effective leaders are able to put themselves in the shoes of the people they are leading. Leadership requires you to understand people.

Your vision for the people under your leadership needs to have something in common with their vision. Rallying a team around a common goal or goals is a huge part of getting buy in from your people.

Fear based leadership is going to get buy in as well, but for the wrong reasons. If your people can’t talk to you openly and share their points you won’t get the most out of them. Coaches in hockey can often be hard nosed but they have a much shorter shelf life than a players coach would.

To sum it up, your example matters above all else. You don’t have to say much if you set a good example. Empathy is also a major part of effective leadership.

To your success,

Angus

Filed Under: Motivation

The Power of Polarity

May 19, 2025 by Angus Baynham-McColl

I have considered the power of polarity for a number of years now.

The concept was shown to me when I read Steve Pavlina’s blog many years ago. The concept talks about using energetic flow in a polarized direction by deciding to become 100% dedicated to service to self or service to others. But not both at the same time.

There are two polarities, light-working or dark-working.

Light-working is the idea that you dedicate your life to serving the greater good.

Dark-working is the idea that you dedicate your life to serving yourself.

Most people are somewhere in the middle, and this is why they have mixed results.

The common person hasn’t made a decision to be a light-worker or a dark-worker.

When you choose one polarity, your motivation will skyrocket.

You’ll become a more congruent person. Your intentions may be the same either way, but your energy will flow better because a polarized person has one direction of energetic flow. The flow is either love energy (giving) or fear energy (taking).

Choosing the light-worker path means that your life now becomes about service to others.

Your mission is to make the greater good better off.

I have leaned more towards the light-worker polarity. The goal of serving all helped me become a better Army Cadet because my efforts were about making my unit better off.

I still wanted individual success, but this was for the purpose of being able to make a larger contribution.

Light-working doesn’t mean you neglect yourself, in fact you have to take care of yourself more so you have more to give.

Consider that you have to be more selfish to make a larger contribution to humanity.

More money allows you to be more generous. It also allows you to reward yourself for the contributions you make to humanity.

Dark-workers will also eventually know that the best way to serve self-interest is to be service oriented.

To have money and success it takes contribution to the market.

A dark-worker may have an easier time using marketing to manipulate potential customers. The light-worker may feel like it eats away at their conscience to practice marketing.

The work here in business is about integration, if you truly create a great product that helps others, you’ll want to do marketing.

The thing that held me back with marketing was the idea that I didn’t want to be too intrusive.

As someone who’s beginning to embrace light-working I have to consider that my efforts to market are still benefitting others. So I would actually be screwing people over if I didn’t make efforts to market.

Being a dark-worker would be all about personal gain. A dark-worker would actually try to extract as much profit as possible from a business. The light-worker would be focused on service.

The real work is to polarize, but to use the opposite polarity when it makes sense to do so.

The work of integration between service to self and service to others is a part of this process.

The dark-worker learns to think about the greater good to get more success. The light-worker thinks about how to get fair value for their contributions.

If I want to make more money so I can ultimately be more generous, this is a good reason to be selfish and selfless at the same time.

Using polarity to think about the good of all means that you yourself are part of the greater good. Also worth noting that a dark-worker can make a greater contribution to mankind because they are fulfilling a greater role in the game of life.

Choosing a polarity is something that will occur gradually.

You might be drawn to being a Jedi or a Sith.

When you take the light-working polarity to the extreme, it will seem like you are self-sacrificing.

Only at lower levels of consciousness will it feel like a difficult decision.

At lower levels of consciousness you are wrestling between your self-interest, and your conscience. At higher levels of consciousness you will be able to see that each polarity is actually two sides of the same coin.

As you have a higher level of consciousness, you’ll find your actions would be similar regardless of what polarity you picked.

Contribution requires selfishness, and meeting your self-interest requires contribution.

So being a highly conscious dark-worker won’t make you evil. It will allow you more freedom from your conscience to execute positive decisions for yourself. A light-worker will be able to focus on themselves so they have more to give.

The reasons for your actions will have a great difference if you choose to pick a polarity of service to self or service to others.

You will find your actions may be the exact same regardless of why they motivate you.

Motivation will be endless if you decide to pick one polarity.

I’m not polarized yet but I’m leaning more into the polarity of contribution and I’m also able to now practice the more selfish aspect of light-work which is allowing yourself to get value for the value I’m giving.

To your success,

Angus

Filed Under: Motivation, Spirituality

The Flow of Manifestation

May 17, 2025 by Angus Baynham-McColl

You are always moving towards your true desires.

I began to understand the law of attraction at a conscious level when I was in 11th grade back in 2011.

My motivation in learning the law of attraction was to get my high school crush to love me back. I didn’t know how the law of attraction truly worked back then.

I knew that reality is going to render opportunity and also work with you to fully help you manifest what you want.

In 2006 I was using the law of attraction without actually knowing how it worked. I was a natural with the LOA.

Back in October 2006 I was in 7th grade and a private in the Army Cadet program. My mom began to tell me that my thought creates my reality. She had recently heard of the book called “The Secret.”

I was very inspired in my Army Cadet career. I didn’t know that my level of inspiration was actually moving me towards my desires. I had some desires at the time, my first being about being the best Army Cadet in Canada. The other being about helping my cadet unit be the best unit in Canada. I was very proud of my success in cadets and strived to be an MVP calibre cadet by helping those in my unit become better.

In 2004 my Dad passed away suddenly. I also look back in this time of my life as one where the universe was communicating with me. I was having a conversation with my Dad about 4 weeks before he passed away. We were talking about not taking life for granted. He told me that anyone can pass away without warning and I began to wonder if he would go out that way. I had a deep feeling that his passing was imminent.

Later on that May he passed away suddenly.

Part of my motivation for joining cadets was to make him proud. On Feb 11th 2006, I went to my first NHL game. I didn’t actually love hockey at this point in time. But it’s a day I always remember because only 2 years later I would become obsessed with the NHL and a die hard Ottawa Senators fan.

Back to the law of attraction.

The first part of manifestation is being clear about what your soul really wants. This comes down to feelings, not physical objects.

I wanted the joy of winning. As a competitive soul, I always wanted to come out on top. In cadets I wanted to be the most excellent cadet in my unit, but also to have the best possible unit.

I wanted to become the Sergeant Major before the end of my career to help my unit while leading by example. Using my leadership and rank to influence my cadets for the better.

In 2006-2007, I was promoted to corporal after setting the intention to get my promotion in Dec 2006 ahead of most of my peers. I earned the promotion by being on my shooting team and drill team. I also knew my dedication to excellence would be the reason for this success. Sure enough my intent manifested because I had a very strong desire to be a success.

In class when I was in grade 7 I would actually draw pictures of myself in uniform as the Sergeant Major. I would have a chance to get this position in 2011 or 2012.

In 2008, I was a die hard Sens fan and wanted to attend NHL games. My Mom’s boyfriend would take me to 20 Sens games per year. I was able to manifest this desire because of how badly I wanted it. I also didn’t enjoy school that much, and my Mom was able to put me in a private school to allow me to excel in cadets.

I was able to accomplish a lot of my success in cadets because I had a couple of unfair advantages. But I took full advantage. It’s amazing what the universe will do to manifest your soul desires.

My soul desire to be a great cadet and attend hockey games had a common theme. I wanted the feeling of winning, and winning as a team.

I strived to be the best individual and team player I could possibly be.

My future self had plans for me, and the law of attraction can sometimes work backwards in time. You can have a destiny to be in a certain position in your future, and your future self can influence your current self to allow you to manifest the life of your dreams.

You want to have a sense of trust that life has big plans for you.

I have always had trust in the universe.

My imagination was a preview of life’s coming attractions.

Everywhere I went as a leader, I was dedicated to helping those around me. I personify leading by example, and in Cadets I was respected long before I was able to recognize how much respect I had.

In 2011 I was going for a promotion to Chief Warrant Officer, and one of my friends got the rank ahead of me. My defining moment in Cadets was how I responded to this. I knew the following year I was going to get the promotion, so I did my very best as the senior Master Warrant Officer. I embraced the role I had and strived to show my peers the value of loyalty to the unit and not giving up.

I ended up realizing my dream on June 3rd 2012. I was promoted to Chief.

At this time I was also appointed the Drill Sergeant at Connaught Ranges. I met one of my best friends that summer. We talked to each other lots about the law of attraction. We knew each-others language. To this day I see him from time to time, and we always have great conversations.

That summer he was a company sergeant major, and I was the second in command of the entire camp.

The day before I was appointed Drill Sergeant, the base RSM had a conversation with me saying “there’s no doubt in my mind you can do this job” he left the conversation at 11:11PM and the next day I was appointed DSM of the camp.

The law of attraction can work in any direction of time.

In 2013 I was arrested as I got in trouble while having a manic episode.

At the time I didn’t fully know God had a plan for me.

I was found Not Criminally Responsible on the charge.

At the hospital I was getting help from I would eventually become the peer support worker in the same program I was in. I got hired for the position in 2022.

The life I have now is way better than if I was the one who scripted it.

Sometimes the universe has a plan.

I wouldn’t have been able to script my own life as well as the universe did.

Throw a lot of ball hockey in the mix and I get to play the game I love at the highest level in Ottawa.

You don’t always get what you think you want.

Drop socially conditioned desires and hone in on the true feelings you want to experience in your life.

Success, inspiration, triumph, winning, helping other people.

There’s no limit to how much you can create in life, and your life will be made of moments, not things.

Ask for a life with rich moments. A movie is made great for the moments, and you will have your moments.

To your success,

Angus

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